An ego aligned creates a life refined
I'm one of those people who spends a lot of time in my head. I'm a day dreamer. I spend hours every day evaluating and analysing what has gone before, and imagining what may be coming next. It's part of the reason I do this blog; to get things out of my head so I can re-focus on the present. I have always envied those who are not distracted by their thoughts. The people who are actually able to switch off and meditate! They seem to live for the moment; appearing to make life decisions without stress; not afraid of making the wrong choice. Meanwhile, I'm playing out every scenario that might occur from the path I decide to take; second guessing myself and wondering what the right move is, as if I'm playing a game of chess. I wonder though; are these people really making life decisions "without stress", or have they just got clarity on what is truly important when making a decision? I have made some big decisions in my life - or what felt like big decisions ...